SMALL TALK AND "FREE TALK":
I do not chit chat or make small talk during our communication outside of our time together. This is not because I dislike you or find you dull. I am very interested in many people, and I do want to know you inside and out. However, I simply do not have the spare time to gossip or make small talk. Please respect my time by keeping things "strictly business" until you meet me in person. If you meet me in person, you can talk about anything and everything, but over phone or e-mail, I tend to be very to-the-point and focused around booking dates and answering questions pertinent to booking dates.
Please always be freshly showered and have minty breath. My facilities are always available for your convenience. If a shower is not necessary please wash your hands at the beginning of our session. Please do trim your fingernails, making sure there isn't visible dirt underneath them. Please do not wear cologne if possible.
RESPECT AND TIMELINES:
Whatever your length of appointment time please be aware. I'm not a clock watcher but I will notice if you stay longer than you schedule time. Please be respectful and don't wait for me to ask you to leave. If you want to stay longer and I have no other obligations we can discuss a longer appointment.I don't waste your time so please don't waste mine. If you need to cancel a appointment please allow 24 hours notice. I take notes and too many canceled appointments will result in not being able to schedule with me in the future.
For your discretion as well as my own, I will never call you on the phone. I only use email or text messaging and will never text you unless you have texted me first. I will never share your private information with other people (except for providers you list as your references in your screening information). I am very careful to ensure that all communication from you is very carefully hidden and guarded in a remote, secure, secret location.
In public, I try to be very discreet, for your privacy and mine. I will never say anything revealing to anyone surrounding you. If I see you in public, I will not approach you. If we are out in public, I will not touch you without your explicit approval. I will not be loud in your outcall location (unless you want me to). I also ask that you avoid being loud in my incall location. I will not arrive at your outcall location wearing risque attire. I do not say explicit things on the phone or email.
To protect discretion, I advise that you contact me from a private e-mail address that will not be accessible by anyone else but yourself.Discretion is a two-way street. I ask that if you see me in public, don't approach me to discuss escorting. If you want to talk about it, please e-mail me. I also want no sensitive information to be passed around as public information.
I like good communication during our date (not in our e-mails before I meet you), I absolutely encourage you to tell me what you do and don't like, and communicate to me if there is anything you want me to change. I can be very accommodating, and I want you to be 100% comfortable and happy. If you ask me to change something, I will not be offended. I prefer to have a chance to fix anything you aren't happy with.
I may or may not, accept references from other providers. In general, an acceptable reference would only include an active, well-established, well-reviewed provider. I must be able to look at her website, her reviews, her current advertising, and to contact her directly. Agencies, retired providers and/or backpage providers will not be accepted as valid references.
USING ME AS A REFERENCE:
I am more than happy to give references to clients I have met with. I will provide no more than 4 references over a 12 month period starting from the last time we met. If I haven't seen you in more than a year then you should use someone you have seen more recently.
Please email me in advance to let me know you would like a reference and include who you are planning to meet with so that I know it is OK to give her the reference when she contacts me. Also PLEASE only use my email address and do not give out my phone number to ANYONE EVER.
I assert my right to withdraw any positive references at any time, for any reason. If you are inappropriate during a session with me, I will not provide a positive reference for you. If I hear from other providers that you are inappropriate with them, I will not provide a positive reference for you. If you communicate with me in a disrespectful manner, I will not provide a positive reference for you.
I reserve my right to maintain absolute discretion and privacy about my actual reasons for revoking any positive references, so my screening methods will stay protected and discreet. Be on your best behavior with me, and we will probably be okay! Receiving a positive reference from me is a privilege, not a right. I do give positive references for the majority of my clients.
RESPECT FOR ME:
I will not tolerate insults, derogatory language, verbal abuse, physical abuse, or any malicious behavior. I will not tolerate threats or intimidation. I will not tolerate pushy, demanding behavior or demands that I offer things that are not on my menu.
NO HEAD GAMES, NO DRAMA:
I avoid head games, manipulation, deceit, indiscretion, and pressure. I am a straight-forward lady. If there is something I want you to know, I will tell you in a direct, yet polite manner. I treat my clients very well, and I hope that is enough to entice them to return. I never rely on manipulation, trickery, or pressure - to build repeat clientele. I like my life to be simple and devoid of "drama." I believe that the best session is one where there is no gossip, whining, or negativity. I am characteristically fair, easy-going, discreet, and nice. You will find me to be positive, sensible, fair, honest, and free of petty gossip. I am never controlling (without your initial expressed desire to be submissive). I am never possessive or jealous; I always respect your right to play on your own terms. I am respectful and psychologically mature.
I encourage you to write a review of our time together if you feel so inclined; but as a courtesy to me, I also request that you do so only after first discussing it with me.